【新唐人2011年11月18日讯】一支鸡毛撢就能解决教育问题吗﹖广东省一位被称为“狼爸”的父亲，对他4名子女严厉教育，其中3个孩子考进北大。最近他拿着一个鸡毛掸，去参加某电视台的辩论，他说，“打”是家庭教育不可缺失的部分，鸡毛掸就是他教育孩子的秘密武器。不过，有人认为这是“奴性教育”，也有学者表示，中共谎言与暴力的党文化，才是中国大陆教育的问题所在。
“三天一顿打，孩子进北大”是“狼爸”萧百佑的口号。在《江苏教育电视台》节目中，47岁的萧百佑手上拿着一支鸡毛撢，据说，这是他教育孩子的秘密武器。
萧百佑接受《苹果日报》采访时解释说，这不是简单体罚，不是乱打，而是要让孩子明白家规。不过，萧百佑的家规不少，诸如，坐不好，打；拿笔姿势不对，打；功课背诵不流利；与小朋友争吵；被老师批评；放学不准时；未经同意看电视；考试粗心大意被扣分；书本、作业本不整洁；丢失文具、衣物…等等，都要挨顿打。
打完后，还要孩子发表受罚后的决心。
萧百佑表示，自己也是在母亲“打”的教育环境下长大的。他认为，当初他以广东省第8名的成绩考进暨南大学，要归因于母亲的教育方式，所以他选择延续“家族传统”，也因此他被封上“狼爸”的称号。
尽管萧百佑在台上说得头头是道，但现场观众并不怎么认可，对“狼爸”提出许多质疑。南京师范大学副教授朱强也向媒体指出，“狼爸”根本是在倡导“奴性教育”。
原首都师范大学教育科学学院副教授李元华也对《新唐人》表示，“狼爸”这种“打”的教育反映了他成长的背景，如果一支鸡毛撢就能解决教育问题，那也就不是教育了。
李元华：“其实我是觉得他这种教育，整体上这种精神传递的就像中共，这种﹙对﹚中国百姓的统治或者是控制是一样的，是让人惧怕。我用一些谎言，如果我解决不了问题的时候，我就用暴力，那么其实他骨子里是一种暴力的精神，而不是一种爱的精神。”
浙江大学退休教授夏瑰琦认为，现代的教育确实比较放任，没有家规，孩子容易在外面闯祸，但并不是一支鸡毛撢子就能把孩子打好。她认为，中国大陆教育的根本问题还是在于中共制造的党文化。
夏瑰琦：“在中国大陆很多党文化的东西，如果你用那些东西去教育孩子，那么不管你用什么方法，你教育出来都不好，就是看你是用什么样一个正确价值观去教育，这是教育当中最根本的问题。”
夏瑰琦强调，教育的根本目地是要培养孩子健全的人格。在教育方法上也要因材施教，对于不太容易规范的孩子是要严格些，但适时的鼓励也很重要。
新唐人记者周玉林、李庭、薛莉采访报导。
Child Abuse on family Education has been Questioned
Can a stick warning solve the education problem?
In Guangdong, one is called “Wolf Father” is strict on
his four children, three of his children study in
Beijing University.
Recently “Wolf Father” holds a feather stick attends a TV debate,
He said beating children to let them study is part of the education.
The feather stick is his secret weapon for child’s education.
However, some people consider this as a slavery education,
scholars said the Chinese Communist Party’s (CCP) party culture,
lies and violence, is the problem of education in China.
“Kids going to Beijing University if beating them
every three days" is a saying of the “Wolf father" Xiao Baiyou.
In an education TV program in Jiangsu, in China,
A 47-year old Baiyou Xiao is holding a feather stick in his hand,
which is his own “secret weapon" for handling his kids.
Mr. Xiao explained to “Apple Daily" during the interview:
“It is not simply a body-punishment, not violent action,
but to let the kids know the family-discipline.
There are many rule in his Family-discipline,
the causes for being beaten are various, for examples:
the posture of holding pen is not proper;
infrequent-reading, arguing with classmates;
getting criticized by teachers, off school not in time;
watching TV without permission,
getting lower score of exams by careless,
being untidy with textbooks and homework,
losing stationary and cloths so and so.
The kids must show their acknowledgement
and say “no-again” after being beaten.
Xiao Baiyou said his mother beat him during his youth.
He believes that his mother’s educational method
helped him to enter Jinan University with the eight best score in Guangdong Province.
Later, he chose to make it a “family tradition,”
in order to educate his kids, therefore he was called, “wolf dad.”
Although Xiao spoke clearly and logically on stage,
the audience didn’t agree with him and raised many questions.
Zhu Qiang, associate professor of Nanjing Normal University,
told Chinese media that “wolf dad” is advocating “slavery education.”
Li Yuanhua, former associate professor of
Education Science at the Capital Normal University,
told NTD TV that “wolf dad’s” beating method
reflects how he was raised as a youth.
If a feather stick can solve China’s education woes;
it can’t be named “education.”
Li Yuanhua: “In fact, this kind of education is similar to
the CCP’s controlling Chinese people, it is scary.
The CCP uses lies and violence if they cannot solve a problem.
In fact, they have a violent mind-set, rather than a spirit of love."
Xia GuiQi, a retired professor at Zhejiang University, said
that the present educational methods take a laissez-faire approach.
There are no rules, so kids are apt to cause trouble.
They cannot behave themselves well even if spanked.
She thought that the fundamental problem of education
in China is the party’s culture.
Xia GuiQi: “In mainland China, there are many party cultures.
If you use these cultures to educate your children,
no matter what methods you use,
you will be unable to teach them well.
It depends on the value parents put on education.
This is the most fundamental issue."
Xia Guiqi stressed that the fundamental purpose of education
is to train children to have a healthy personality.
Methods in education should be individualized for the child.
It should be stricter with difficult children,
but it is also very important to encourage them.
NTD reporters Zhou Yulin, Li Ting and Xue Li
